Welcome to Sparkles & Spite, a unique blog that I am starting based solely on the fact that I love to write long emails.  I only wish I were kidding.  I am known for them (#suchalegacy #mykidswillbesoproud) and am pretty certain I can hear the groans through the computer when my name pops up in inboxes all throughout the land, so I decided it was time for a more constructive outlet. I would like to say that I have had a vision for this blog since I was old enough to have actual thoughts, but the truth is that I have no idea where this is going.  What I do know is that I love to connect with people through writing.  I love people who are raw, authentic, and messy.  People who aren't afraid to take the mask off and admit that life can be so very hard. People who snort when they laugh, aren't afraid to dig deep and get their hands dirty, and who don't take themselves too seriously. People who laugh at horrifyingly awkward moments (just wait for some of mine) and who are not afraid to fail.  Sometimes I wish I were a little more "Can someone help me find the perfect throw pillow to go with my boho chic decor?" and a little less "I am retiring to my closet with a book, an anti-aging face mask, a Xanax, a jar of Skippy, and a spoon," but that wouldn't be very authentic, now would it?  It is my hope that some of my stories will resonate with you and connect us in ways we never expected.